could i have miss read her (evadently i didbut i still wonder.) every guy she dates something weird happens or does happen so shes constantly breaking things off with these guys she meets. When she is around, I stare at her face and body, and I think she has noticed it. Something very similar happened to me. But and its a big but it is also fraught with more complex issues to do with security. It really helped. It was never the same. Does my ex (daughters father) need to know my address? b)this is not some random acquaintance that he can just avoid. Suggesting that you get your hair done like your sister or wear. You've just made their entire family dynamic very complicated. Dont catastrophize these events by saying something like: Just because they prioritized their own family once doesnt mean they dont care about you at all. If someone is attracted to you and comfortable with you, they subconsciously start to adopt some of your mannerisms and behaviors. I'll just have to try and forget about it. The key difference, Wood says, is that theyll look at you, glance down at their phone, then look back at you in a flirty way. But it may provide a few hints as to what they're feeling well before you're both comfortable enough to talk about it. Get the days best CHAT sent straight to your inbox, I have read and understood Netmums' Privacy Notice and Terms & Conditions, Relate: how much does it cost and does it 'work'. They poke fun at what you order, have something to say about your go-to drink, and find ways to make jokes at your expense? when she is around me and no family is around , she is very flirtatious with me, also many times I have caught her looking at me a lot, some times steadily, when we take pictures, she puts her hand on my lower back just up from my butt, and the other I can tell you what it's like to fall in love with your husband's brother: it's an overwhelming barrage of guilt, angst, torture, excitement when you see him,. Pretty quickly I was thinking about being close to her, kissing her, sex, the whole shebang. This could even include you being ousted from a family conversation. And let's stop with the oh I just want to be his sister and be close but not like that. You are married. Maybe just a crush, but I am not sure. Sorry, but you are being absolutely ridiculous. If you notice that your girlfriend's sister is always hugging you, touching your shoulder in conversation, or being playfully affectionate, she may be trying to flirt with you. I had hoped this feeling would die down, but it has got worse and over the past three weeks I have become aware that he seems to be lusting after me. That there is something her sister has that she doesnt. In her mind, theres no boundary between her brothers relationship with her and his relationship with you. It will hurt for awhile. Be polite but busy yourself with other things -- meeting with your friends, working on your car, etc. Lee also signed a measure banning gender-affirming medical care for trans youth.. and kept giving me this look. That means it is a "compound" sign. This is one form of rejection from her that could be unnerving for you. Before any husband tells their wife that he is having fantasies about her sister, hed better be pretty sure that she feels secure enough not to feel disturbed by his confession.