Hi Suz, it sounds as if this guy is thinking about his choices meaning that you need to go into a No Contact for 30 days (45 if he gets into a relationship) and show him that you are not willing to stand around and wait to be chosen by him. Finally, this is one of the strongest signs that a guy is interested in you. [/group] He came in and talked fine.obviously not about the relationship just meaningless talk. I did call the day after, and he was patient, but I shouldnt have done that and have not initiated any contact since. This is usually given as a reason for not meeting up for a fun, spontaneous date night. Then visiting his home country, my home country (during the pandemic) because he wanted it. He means: I'm about this close to dumping you but I haven't worked . What!! He wants to spend as much time with you as possible. and kept asking me what I wanted to do. 4 I'm Staying In Tonight. Its safer for avoidants to admire from afar than it is to admire from up close. Carmen Barbieri took Diego Leonardi off the air and invited him to continue the discussion on the floor. Is no contact still applicable. Say Good question, why do you ask? or Youre good. IS that the right things to do? Its so hard to believe because I know things werent perfect and we had issues but I really thought he loved me and never saw him letting me go, especially like this. Feels like mixed signals? 2023-03-04T10:37:40.648Z, A plan so that the easternmost point of the Americas does not disappear It would show that they saw something special in you. Learn the special way to read a mans mind and know EXACTLY what hes thinking, just by looking for a few simple behavior cues. Tell him whats on your mind and how it makes your heart sing! It spiraled from there as it triggered my anxious attachment style and all of a sudden my best friend and this loving relationship turned. You see, its one thing for a man to be interested. I still agree that the holy trinity concept is important when youre looking at time management aspects, but whats missed is this magnum opus concept. Well, he wants to know what kind of activities you like doing and whether or not they align with his own interests. He was my best friend and while we both had believed we had a future together, he lost interest in me over the course of quarantine but wasnt sure how he felt so never came forward to end thing and dragged my misery on.